“What kind of love is it that the person being loved can’t live the way they want to? ” In Confucian culture, we are taught of filial piety and unconditional obedience towards the elders in the family because they only want the best for us. In such a cultural context, all the toxic behaviours–over-control, emotional manipulation, constant guilt-tripping–are justified as “love”.

So, what is it like to be a Glass Child when you’re 50? Glass Child is a term often used to describe a child who has had to grow up with a sibling whose illness, disability, developmental issue or high-attention need requires more parental attention. In this article, Yasmeen shares her sage experience.

The phenomenon of burnout and overwork is especially evident in East Asia. In Singapore, where I am from, “poor organisational culture, unrealistic expectations of workers’ productivity, role ambiguity and lack of recognition” are grounds for burnout. Learn how a positive working culture can be built.

A love letter to the people and places that held me steady. For anyone feeling alone: community and connection can be lifelines. Seek out the spaces—and people—that help you feel safe, seen, and supported.

In 2023, there was a wave of layoffs in most job markets. I was not spared - unemployed for two and a half months making $0. We may feel more self-worth based on financial success for many reason, but pursuing money just to boost self-esteem is detrimental. Why?

Ah, family. Manna for many, source of stress for others! There are all sorts of expectations placed on family members that we would not dare place on others. We desire space to live our own lives yet feel the strain of being tethered to the family unit—a deep-rooted sense of obligation that resonates strongly in collectivist Asian cultures. How do we find the balance? Let’s get ready to build boundaries!